A MUM was found dead at home after her family noticed something unusual on Facebook.
Katy Gough usually commented on photos of her daughter but was seemingly silent online in the run up to Christmas 2022.
MEN MediaKaty Gough was found dead at home in the run up to Christmas 2022[/caption]
MEN MediaHer family had raised concerns after Katy didn’t comment on a photo of her daughter on Facebook[/caption]
She left no message under a picture of the youngster after she met Santa Claus, which her relatives thought strange.
They grew increasingly concerned when they were unable to reach the 32-year-old by phone or text.
In a panic, her mum Elaine Beech burst into her house in Royton, Greater Manchester, where she found Katy unresponsive on December 16.
She had taken her own life.
Opening up about the tragic day and the “wake of devastation” that followed, she told Manchester Evening News: “We couldn’t get hold of her all day.
“Her daughter was seeing Santa that day and we were waiting for her to comment on a photo of her meeting him [on Facebook], but no comment came.
“We went round and broke in and found her.
“It just came as a complete shock. She kept it all to herself.”
Katy, who worked at Revolution on Deansgate Locks in Manchester, was known as the ‘green diva’ thanks to her love of the colour.
Friends said she wore it every day, and she was even buried in a green coffin.
“Everywhere she went, she had green on,” Elaine said.
“Her nails were painted green, she dressed in green, everything she wanted to do was green.
“I have no idea where it came from, but all the accessories in her house were green.”
Katy was described as a “very funny” person who was loved by her family, friends and colleagues.
She is survived by her daughter, who was just two when she died.
Now four, she is starting to ask questions.
It was a devastating shock to her daughter
Elaine Beech
“Last week, she asked me how her mummy died,” Elaine said.
“She says she wants her mummy whenever she sees pictures of Katy.
“We have photos all around the house.
“It was a devastating shock to her.”
On August 10, Katy’s friends climbed Scafell Pike, Cumbria, to raise money for Child Bereavement UK – a charity which is supporting her daughter.
In total, they donated £3,150.
“She didn’t realise how loved she was,” Elaine said.
“They will never forget Katy – she was a diamond.”
Katy, 32, had taken her own lifeMEN Media
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